Finding and choosing cantors and instrumentalists
(musicians) for your Catholic wedding
Who will provide the music at your wedding? Here
are some of the possibilities:
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A cantor leads the assembly in song; she or he
usually sings the verses of a song (or of the responsorial psalm), then
invites the whole assembly to sing the refrain.
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A soloist sings a song by herself or himself while
the assembly quietly prays.
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A choir consists of several singers who help the
assembly sing.
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Instrumentalists play a musical instrument (piano, cello, organ, violin,
flute, etc.) either accompanied by the song of the assembly, or alone
(while the assembly prays).
Your wedding does not need
all of these musicians—a piano and cantor could be just fine. You
have several options for choosing people to fill these roles:
Use the parish music ministry. Most parishes
provide some form of music ministry for weddings. Whether that
consists of just an organist or cantors and other instrumentalists
will depend on the parish; the music minister will tell you what is
available. Expect to pay a fee for this service.
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Invite friends and family to provide music.
You might want to have friends or family members provide the music
at your wedding. If you go this route, check with the music minister
at your parish first. All the music at your wedding needs to fit
smoothly into the liturgy—a tricky task that usually requires some
experience, and at least some familiarity with the liturgy, to do
well. It is especially important for cantors, or leaders of song, to
have some training, since their role is to lead the assembly in
song. If you have friends or family who would like to sing or play
at your wedding, but who are not comfortable with the liturgy, the
music minister might be able to find simple, safe ways for them to
participate—such as providing prelude music, or a meditative solo
after the communion hymn.
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Hire musicians. If you would prefer to hire
professional musicians, you will want to choose ones who have
experience with Catholic liturgical music. Your parish music
minister will probably be able to recommend good musicians for hire. Since it is expected that you would utilize the parish's music ministry for your wedding, if you hire musicians instead of using the parish's music minister(s), expect to pay a fee to the parish as well.
No matter who you choose to provide music for
your wedding, you will want to consult with the musicians before
settling on particular songs for your wedding service.

Choosing wedding music
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Striking the right note
Finding Songs, Hymns, and Other
Music for a Catholic Wedding
Can we use recorded music in our wedding?
Can we use popular, non-religious music in our wedding?